Most people picture OCD as hand-washing or counting. But for a lot of people in Shelton, the thing that's eating up their day looks nothing like that. It's the shirt that doesn't feel right until it's been adjusted six times. It's the email re-read until it sounds exactly right — and then read again. It's the stack of papers that has to be perfectly aligned before you can leave the room. It's not about being neat. It's about a feeling — an uncomfortable, low-grade wrongness — that doesn't go away until something is just right. That feeling is real. And OCD is driving it. Sindhia Shyras, APRN understands this kind of OCD, and she can help you push back against it.
Symmetry OCD isn't really about symmetry. It's about a sensation — something that sits wrong, somewhere between discomfort and dread, that only releases when a specific condition is met. Maybe a picture needs to hang perfectly level. Maybe you have to tap both sides of a doorframe before you can walk through. Maybe a sentence you wrote feels subtly off, so you revise it, and then it still feels off, and then you revise it again. From the outside, this looks like perfectionism. But the difference is this: a perfectionist feels good when things are right. With OCD, the relief is immediate — and then the cycle starts again. You're not chasing quality. You're chasing a feeling that keeps moving.
This is one of the harder truths about OCD — the very thing that makes the discomfort stop also makes OCD stronger. Every time you adjust, re-do, or check until the feeling passes, your brain files that away: compulsion worked. Do it again next time. So the threshold for "wrong enough to fix" gets lower. The rituals take longer. The things that trigger that uncomfortable feeling multiply. It's not a flaw in your character — it's how OCD works. It exploits your brain's desire for relief. The good news is that treatment works the same way, in reverse: with the right support, you can gradually learn to tolerate that discomfort without acting on it, and the grip loosens over time.
Sindhia Shyras starts with a real conversation — not a checklist. She wants to understand what your OCD actually looks like, what it's costing you in time and energy, and what you've already tried. For many people, medication plays a meaningful role: SSRIs at therapeutic doses for OCD can reduce the intensity of obsessions and make it easier to resist compulsions. That often works best alongside therapy, specifically ERP — but medication alone can move the needle significantly. Sindhia will walk you through what the options are, what realistic progress looks like, and how to track whether things are actually changing. You don't have to white-knuckle through this alone.
If OCD is taking up too much of your day — in Shelton or anywhere in Connecticut — Sindhia Shyras at Elite Health can help. Telehealth appointments available statewide.
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